There Are Few Good Men.......Ladies Ask Yourself Why?

I will not begin this by candy coding, or making up some 3rd person, to hide from what I want to say. I will not make believe, nor say this is my "friend". No this is me, and this is my story.

Ladies, men are frustrated. I don't care what race they are, they are pissed and confused with you. Women often say that there is no good men left in the world. So if that's true...then ask yourself why? I am not putting all the blame on you all, but you have a good 70% to do with the shortage of them. To me I have noticed that when you have a good man you don't know how to keep him. And this go's with the emotional part of you that I have been talking about. You don't know he was a good man until he's had enough and he's out the door. This is true.....just except it.

Now lets move on. I must admit that in the past, and so you've read, that I was a bad boy. But as time go's on those "boys" become men, and hopefully they grow up and learn from their mistakes. I would love to say being married, and living with a woman is wonderful. If I said that I wouldn't be telling the truth now would I? I am in no way on this subject saying that all women are the the same. But the percentage is pretty high. So today this is not a joke- this is real and serious. Just follow where I'm going with this.

When I met my wife we had nothing. We lived with some roommates. But you know how that go's...it just didn't work out. So I went out, and emptied my bank account, and got us our first place. She was thrilled, and overjoyed. I worked hard to put every piece of "life" in that apartment. Everything she ever wanted I got..car clothes, money, and love. I treated my wife like a queen. She never really had to ask for anything. But after time it was like she didn't notice my hard work, or care. So I felt she took me for granted. So I had an affair. I agree ladies its not a good reason, but I did and I'm sorry to all ladies that have went through this. She forgave me, and we stayed together vowing to treat each other right, and to tend to each others needs. Whatever they may be.

Suddenly my wife became gravely sick. She couldn't work so the load fell on me. I never complained, after all she needed me, plus she was my wife. So I took care of everything, bills, rent, whatever. Never to this day has the subject ever came up.... so here we go. Just recently I was laid off, or should I say some months ago. My wife is better and she is working now. Keep in mind that the company I worked for, for 4 years laid off 14,000 techs. Anyways, my wife now treats me like I'm some bum who never worked. This is the point I'm trying to make. Regardless of what I've done, or have provided, it means nothing! How quick my deeds have been forgotten. Everything now is "my" house, or "my" this, and both of our names is on everything. I have always did what I needed to do as a man, and a provider. So tell me why do some women do this? I have always heard that sad ass story about "there's no good black men." Sorry to say this, but that's bullshit. Just tonight my wife told me the truth about a lie she told me 4 years ago. And it was major. I'm sitting here thinking "what the hell should I do now?" The point is if a man does for you (your man) and he falls. Is it OK to kick him in the nuts while he's down? Especially after all he has done for you? I man a good man, and I must admit I am confused. My true feelings don't matter at this point. But ladies tell me. What is the logic is this behavior? If you treat a man like crap, do you expect him to stay around? And don't you think even good men get tired?